The holiday season is often described as “the most wonderful time of the year,” but for many families navigating divorce, custody issues, or the loss of a loved one, November and December can feel heavy, complicated, and emotionally exhausting. At Boswell Law Firm, we understand that these challenges don’t pause just because the world is celebrating. If you’re struggling this season, you are not alone—and there are ways to find peace, connection, and stability during this time.
- If You Are Going Through a Divorce
Divorce brings change—financially, emotionally, and socially. The holidays may highlight those changes in painful ways.
Prioritize Your Well-Being
This is not the year to “power through.” Set boundaries, rest when you need to, and give
yourself permission to decline invitations that feel overwhelming.
Create New Traditions
It’s okay if past traditions no longer fit. Try something simple: a movie night, volunteering, a small trip, or decorating your space your way.
Lean on Your Support People
Whether it’s friends, family, your therapist, or your legal team, reach out. Divorce is hard
enough—you shouldn’t navigate it alone.
- If You’re Struggling With a Custody Arrangement
Co-parenting during the holidays can introduce stress even under the best circumstances.
Stick to the Court-Ordered Schedule
Consistency protects both your children and you.
Focus on the Children’s Experience
Kids don’t need perfect holidays—they need stability, love, and reassurance.
Keep Expectations Realistic
You can’t control the other parent’s home, but you can control your environment, mindset, and the memories you create.
- If You’re Coping With the Loss of a Loved One
Probate often overlaps with deep grief, which can intensify during the holidays.
Allow Yourself to Feel What You Feel; Grief doesn’t take a holiday.
Honor Your Loved One
Share stories, light a candle, or prepare a favorite dish in their memory.
Ask for Help
The logistics of probate combined with grief can be overwhelming. Your attorney can help shoulder the burden.
- Practical Tips for Managing Holiday Stress
- Plan ahead
- Limit social media
- Say “no” without guilt
- Practice self-kindness
- Get support when needed
- Give Yourself (and Your Family) the Gift of a Good Estate Plan
One of the most meaningful gifts you can give your family is clarity and protection through an up-to-date estate plan.
This season, consider giving your loved ones:
- A will that reflects your current circumstances
- Updated guardianship designations
- Powers of attorney
- Medical directives
- A plan to protect your assets and your legacy
- Call to Action: Boswell Law Firm Is Here to Support You This Holiday Season
If you’re facing divorce, navigating a custody issue, working through a probate matter, or ready to get your estate planning in order, Boswell Law Firm is here to help.
Schedule a Case Evaluation with an Experienced Paralegal
Call 832-919-6595 to speak with our team and take the first step toward stability and peace of mind.
Visit http://www.boswelltexaslaw.com to learn more or to request your case evaluation.
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